Life has its consequences and circumstances and sometimes even has it's gifts. But if life does not reap the fruits of what you have just sowed, doesn't mean you throw your life away. All you need to do is take some time to nourish it, give it a little sunshine, understand one another and things will turn out the way you want it to be. Do not let obstacles get in your way to converse with the opposite party. Then again, do not let egoism and boastfulness take charge of the conversation. It ain't about smooth talking or getting all tensed finding the right words to complete your sentence. It is about getting words right so that the opposite party would not feel the urge to retaliate against you. Better to be a "witty fool" than a "foolish wit". Get it?

So comes relationship in life. Heart to heart talks take place. Why let the past ruin the present? In relationships, I understand that there are no rules and boundaries but still there has to be a full-stop to what you are doing (E.g, lies, tell-tales, and so it goes). It is not lies that brings you together, nor is it tell-tales which keeps you together. Shit might get you to the top, but it may not keep you there forever. Be happy with what you get and cherish every moment as if the sky was about to fall. Mistakes only happens once, same mistakes doesn't count as a new one. Mishaps may happen, but never let disaster take place. Yes, you're a human...you're not perfect... I understand that, but you have to know that lives are at stake. There are no second chances to what has happened. Forgiveness is one thing, correcting and solving the problem is another. Which one comes first? Both! When arguments brews up, its not about telling the opposite party on what he/she has done wrong, or what he/she did in the past, or what he/she can't do! Arguments are to mend the broken pieces of the heart together and to set things straight even if it seems curved. Think before conversing, otherwise more damage will be done. Its more like adding oil into the raging fire.

You think you have the wits to take this challenge, or the heart to take on this relationship?

Do not let wits take place, let the heart do the talking.

Cheers!


P/S: If there is anything I stated that was wrong, please correct me. I'm still a learning human.